Published by: Ingrid King. Last Updated on: February 1, 2023 by Crystal Uys


Jackson Galaxy’s long awaited first book, Cat Daddy: What The World’s Most Incorrigible Cat Taught Me About Life, Love, and Coming Clean, is coming out Thursday, May 10. You can still pre-order the book and help homeless cats at the same time: Jackson’s publisher will donate $1 for every pre-order, click here for details on how to make your pre-order count.

If you don’t want to pre-order, you’re going to want to be at the bookstore first thing on Thursday and snatch up your copy of this book. And you’re going to want to set aside a good chunk of time to read it, because once you start, you’re not going to be able to stop.

This book is no ordinary cat memoir, nor is it an ordinary cat advice book. It is an inspirational tour de force that offers an intimate glimpse at Jackson, the man, and Jackson, the Cat Daddy. This is one of the most unconventional memoirs I’ve ever read, but then, I didn’t expect anything less from Jackson.

Jackson Galaxy defies convention. Bald, bearded and tattooed, he’s anything but what you would imagine a cat behaviorist to look like, let alone one who has an almost uncanny ability to connect with cats in ways that few others can. Rock musician? Maybe. Biker dude? Possibly. But cat guy? No way.

Cat Daddy chronicles Jackson’s journey from down-and-out drug-addicted musician to cat behaviorist of last resort to countless cats, from his early work with cats at an animal shelter in Boulder to his partnership with Jean Hofve, DVM and their joint ventures, Little Big Cat and Spirit Essences, which Jackson eventually bought from Hofve, to his own successful behavior consulting practice.

But the real star of this book is Benny, a small grey and white cat who was brought to the shelter where Jackson had begun to build a reputation as a “cat whisperer.” Benny had been hit by a car and had a broken pelvis, his owner couldn’t afford the vet bills, and she also “just didn’t like him.” Benny was only supposed to be a foster cat, but as Jackson watched Benny’s remarkable recovery from his physical injuries, something shifted for Jackson. He began to feel a kinship with this broken cat, and realized that “Benny wasn’t my foster cat anymore. He was my family.” That moment may have saved not only Benny’s life, but Jackson’s as well. And this was only the first of many lessons Benny would teach Jackson about not being in control of the universe. “The teacher arrived when the student was ready to learn.”

In addition to his physical injuries, Benny had his share of emotional problems. It soon became obvious that Benny didn’t just come into Jackson’s life so Jackson could fix him; Jackson needed some serious fixing himself. By the time Benny arrived, Jackson’s life was spiraling out of control at an alarming rate. As Jackson began to work with this emotionally damaged cat, Benny did what noone else in Jackson’s life had been able to do: he forced Jackson to begin to peel away the layers of denial, and helped him discover his true physical, spiritual and emotional self beneath his multiple addictions.

There are many deeply moving moments in this book. For me, one of the most most touching passages was the moment Jackson surrenders control. His “hit the knees” moment was reinforced when he realized that “Benny is not just a cat who I take care of but a confused, frustrated being who is exactly the same as me.”  At that moment, Jackson not only found the process he’s since used and still uses today with every cat he works with, he also learned he could be “present in the moment for an animal who needed me to be present in the moment.” Being present and living life one moment at a time is one of the cornerstones of recovery. Benny had shown Jackson the way.

The book is interspersed with plenty of Jackson’s Cat Mojo 101. He introduces his famous “Cat-I-Love-You” technique (also known as the “slow blink”) with the remarkable story of the “forty-five cat kisses”at the Boulder shelter. His “Three-Step Handshake” was born when he first met Benny. In “Don’t Be a Litter Box Baby,” Jackson provides easy to implement steps to address litter box problems. As with so many of his techniques, Benny proved to be a hard core test case for this one as well.

All of Jackson’s advice takes the cat’s perspective into account, and comes from the premise that once you understand why something makes sense to a cat and respond from that same place, you will see changes in the cat’s behavior. Jackson understands that cats are energetically sensitive, and he focuses as much on training the cat as he does on training the cat’s human, always stressing the importance of the cat’s guardian managing his own energy and emotions when around the cat.

Jackson’s writing style is emotionally raw, candid, and sometimes shocking in its honesty. The one constant throughout his story, even during his darkest days of battling his own personal demons, is his connection with cats in general, and with Benny in particular.

In true cat like fashion, Benny taught Jackson about living in the moment, about surrendering control, and ultimately, about love. The cats of the world, and those of us who love them, owe a debt of gratitude to Benny for saving Jackson’s life and for being his teacher – and to Jackson, for the courage to share his story with the world, and for honoring Benny’s legacy each and every day through his work.

This book was sent to me by the publisher. Receiving the complimentary copy did not influence my review.


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15 Comments on Book review: Cat Daddy by Jackson Galaxy

  1. I was surprised when I read his book! I really like his way of writing, his humor and his thoughts about this things. Not to mention his honestly, just like you said in the review. 🙂
    He’s a true inspiration!

  2. Great review Ingrid – Jackson is the real deal, and yes, the book is shockingly candid. As I get to know Jackson better, I would expect nothing less from him and found the story to be riveting.

  3. I am anxiously waiting for my preordered copy of Cat Daddy! I love the show and have learned a few things. I don’t let Zooby watch though – I’m afraid she will pick up some bad habits! (Author of A Cat Named Zooby)

    • LOL Sherry! Ruby likes to watch the show, she gets very curious when she hears the cats screaming. Allegra, on the other hand, tends to leave the room when the show is on.

  4. Beautiful review : )
    Loved reading about your favorite “hit the knees” part.
    Can’t wait to get our paws on the book!
    xo Katie & Glogirly

  5. If we were in a theater I would give you a STANDING OVATION….

    As always….SUPERB……

  6. Nice review! He is an interesting cat guy, so I think the book would be a great read!

  7. I’ll be at Jackson Galaxy’s book signing here in NJ, so excited to be able to meet him!
    Can’t wait to read the book, terrific review btw! Thanks!

    • You’re so lucky that you’ll get to meet Jackson in person, Theresa! I’m glad you like the review. It was challenging to put into less than 1000 words how much I loved this book.

  8. I’ve orderd my book. Can’t WAIT go get it! I haven’t had a cat since I was 12 years old.
    Now, at age 66, I suddenly find we hav 5 cats, so I’ve watched your shows religiously. There are just not enough shows!!! When will new shows be ready?

    • Lynda, Jackson is currently filming season 3. I’m not sure when it will air, but I believe it’s sometime this summer.

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