A Very Special Painting

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I’ve admired Bernadette Kazmarski’s art for many years. I first introduced you to this supremely talented artist eight years ago, and Bernadette and I have been friends ever since. She designed the covers for two of my books (Purrs of Wisdom and Adventures in Veterinary Medicine) and has been designing my annual Christmas cards for many years. Several years ago, I commissioned a painting of a friend’s cat. Last year, I commissioned a landscape painting of the beautiful view from a friend’s weekend retreat.

Bernadette has a unique ability to not only render the actual animal, or the scene, in a beautiful, almost magical way. She also captures the essence of her subjects in a way that I’ve seen few other artist do. The two paintings I commissioned have become treasured possessions for my friends.

A couple of months ago, I celebrated a milestone birthday. I was looking forward to one of my birthday rituals, lunch at a fancy French restaurant with one of my closest friends. Most of my friends and I have eliminated exchanging birthday gifts several years ago, choosing instead to celebrate with a leisurely meal at a favorite restaurant. I certainly wasn’t prepared for my friend to hand me a giant package after I sat down!

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I almost burst into tears when I tore away the gift wrap to reveal Bernadette’s stunning painting. It features all of the cats who have shared and are sharing my life: Feebee, Amber, Buckley, and Allegra and Ruby. And they are pictured in front of my beloved maple tree.

The tree was planted 34 years ago, when I first moved into this house. I’ve watched it grow into a beautiful, mature tree. This tree has been with me through a lot of life –  through both joyful and challenging times. Each fall, it’s one of the last trees to turn, and when it does, it turns the most incredibly bright, vibrant red.  When the light is just right, my entire bedroom is infused with a red glow from the tree. I consider this tree a member of my family. I explained the significance of the tree in a post I wrote a few years ago.

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I hung the painting in my bedroom, next to the window. It felt right to have it right next to the real tree, and this way, it’s the last thing I see when I go to bed, and the first thing I see when I wake up in the morning (well, the second thing, the first is usually Ruby’s face!)

This painting represents so much for me. The gift of friendship. The love of all of the cats in my life, both past and present. My beloved maple tree, who is like a member of the family to me. Bernadette captured all of it – the friendship, the cats, the tree – perfectly. Not only did she capture all of these elements visually, she captured the spiritual essence of it all.

When I look at the painting, I don’t just see the cats, the window and the tree. I actually feel the presence of the cats who have passed on – it’s like they’re sitting by that very window again, as if they had never left. I viscerally sense the peace that my tree always brings me, especially in the fall, when it turns this spectacular red color. I love that my beloved tree now infuses the room with that warm, red glow all year long, not just those few days in the fall when it’s at its peak.

Please visit Bernadette’s website, The Creative Cat, to read more about how this painting (and the surprise) came about, about her process of completing it, and how you can order your own commissioned painting from her!

12 Comments on A Very Special Painting

  1. caren gittleman
    July 25, 2018 at 9:45 pm (3 months ago)

    Ingrid that painting is BEYOND special! All of your kitty loves are showcased gloriously where you can see them always. I remember reading about the significance of the tree, this indeed…is truly special. Just beautiful!

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    • Ingrid
      July 26, 2018 at 5:51 am (3 months ago)

      Isn’t it wonderful, Caren?

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  2. Bernadette
    July 25, 2018 at 6:54 pm (3 months ago)

    It’s wonderful to hear and share your part of the story, Ingrid. With cats, with my art, with many things, something guides me and I follow. I am honored to have created this for Kathy, and for you.

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  3. Jen
    July 25, 2018 at 12:38 pm (3 months ago)

    Look at all the beautiful torties! 🙂

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  4. Steve Howard
    July 25, 2018 at 12:11 pm (3 months ago)

    What a heartwarming story to match that beautiful painting. I’d love to have all of the cats who shared my life to be in the same piece of art. This brightened my day Ingrid, thank you.

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  5. T. J. Banks
    July 25, 2018 at 10:26 am (3 months ago)

    Love the painting and the post, Ingrid. (I’m a big maple fan — they were my dad’s favorite tree.) Bernadette is very intuitive, and it comes across in her work. She painted a portrait of my Keisha: in it, Keisha is rolling about in the garden, and there is a white bench near her. The funny thing is, there HAD been a white marble bench out there, but I’d given it away to make room for more flowers. Bernadette didn’t know about the bench — she just felt that there should be a bench there somehow.

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  6. Janine
    July 25, 2018 at 7:43 am (3 months ago)

    This is a beautiful painting. Bernadette really captured your sweet cats’ likenesses.

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  7. Sue Brandes
    July 25, 2018 at 7:05 am (3 months ago)

    Beautiful painting.

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  8. kat
    July 25, 2018 at 7:01 am (3 months ago)

    what a GORGEOUS painting! you are so lucky!!!

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  9. Summer
    July 25, 2018 at 4:28 am (3 months ago)

    We are huge fans of Bernadette, both as an artist and a person, and that painting is awesome beyond words.

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  10. TJF
    July 25, 2018 at 3:22 am (3 months ago)

    What a lovely gift and a beautiful, magical painting !

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  11. Just a reader
    July 25, 2018 at 3:19 am (3 months ago)

    Oh, it’s such a very beautiful painting, and such a beautiful thought behind it! I actually burst into tears reading this. But I don’t know if I could myself bear to be reminded all the time about those loved ones that have died, and who I miss so very much. For me, it is very hard. It’s not that I would want to forget them, but I’m not good at handling my feelings, and the grief is just too much. But anyway, Bernadette clearly has a unique talent. I can’t help but admire they way she captures the essence of the beautiful cats that she paints.

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