Conscious Cat Sunday: Accepting What Is

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Happiness can only exist in acceptance. – George Orwell

Every single moment in life offers us a choice: we can either be in the moment and accept what is happening, or we can resist it. This is a lesson that life tends to present to us over and over. Whether it’s weather throwing a wrench into our plans, or a friend or co-worker not cooperating with our wishes, gracefully accepting what is can be challenging.

Resistance is part of human nature. We want things to be a certain way, and when they’re not, we start complaining. Spring was slow in coming to this part of the world this year, and grumbling about the weather became a favorite pastime here. I finally realized after the umpteenth time of thinking or saying “I’m so sick of cold weather” how much of an energy drain it is to resist something you can’t control.

Acceptance is a choice

While we can’t always control what is happening in our lives or in the world around us, we can choose how we react. We can choose to accept what is happening or we can struggle against it. Accepting what is will result in a peaceful state of mind, while struggle will only lead to misery.

Acceptance does not mean that we agree with what is happening, and it does not preclude change. In fact, acceptance is usually the first step toward lasting change.

A positive mindset

Life doesn’t always give us what we want, no matter how positive we think, but a positive mindset will help us embrace what is happening. Acceptance is the springboard to dealing with challenges in a more productive, and ultimately more peaceful way. I believe that every challenge comes with a lesson, and finding the reason behind why something is happening can make a big difference in how you deal with it.

Acceptance is not an easy practice, but it is a rewarding one. Cats seem to be good at it. Perhaps it’s because they have mastered living in the moment, and acceptance is about mindfulness and being present.

Accepting what is

It turned out that once I embraced accepting that spring will unfold at its own pace rather than follow my schedule, I found myself appreciating the season with more joy. I found myself slowing down in general rather than trying to rush through life, trusting that things will unfold in their own time. As of this writing, spring has finally arrived in all its glory, and temperatures are approaching my ultimate comfort zone of the low 80’s.

And I look to Allegra and Ruby for clues. Even though they may complain about the lack of sun puddles on a cool, cloudy day, they quickly find another comfy spot to nap in rather than being unhappy.

Is accepting what is hard for you?

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9 Comments on Conscious Cat Sunday: Accepting What Is

  1. Mary Cervencik
    April 26, 2015 at 3:41 pm (4 years ago)

    Very good advice. I am going through a difficult time right now. In order to make the situation better, I may have to make some changes as difficult as that may be. My cats keep me grounded. Thank you again

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    • Ingrid
      April 27, 2015 at 6:06 am (4 years ago)

      Cats do have a way of keeping us grounded, don’t they, Mary. I hope things get better for you.

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  2. Robyn
    April 19, 2015 at 10:28 pm (4 years ago)

    Hi Ingrid. Today I lived in the moment all because of your article. It was a great day! I read the article to my son who is 13 in grade 8. There has been tremendous pressure this year with school. Not only are they learning grade 9 math concepts but they are expected to pick a career. It seems today’s society dictates instant results. Time to live in the moment has ceased to exist so it is important to be reminded of it. Thank you. Your article is archived in my inbox for future reminders to not expect but to accept and be happy! Hugs to the girls

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    • Ingrid
      April 20, 2015 at 6:03 am (4 years ago)

      I’m so glad my article made your day such a great day, Robyn. And you made mine by telling me!

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  3. Craig R. H. Laurent
    April 19, 2015 at 6:50 pm (4 years ago)

    Thank you for your article – what a powerful reminder about attitude.

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  4. Sue Brandes
    April 19, 2015 at 6:09 pm (4 years ago)

    Wonderful post Ingrid. Your kitties are so pretty.

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  5. Lisa
    April 19, 2015 at 1:09 pm (4 years ago)

    That’s a perfect photo to convey the sentiments in your article. Is that Allegra or Ms. Ruby? I accept that life is a series of up and downs, ebb and flow, some things out of my control and other things I completely enable….wreckage of my own making but the kitties bring me back down to earth. Have a great week ahead. 🙂

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    • Ingrid
      April 19, 2015 at 3:07 pm (4 years ago)

      That’s Allegra, Lisa. Aren’t we fortunate to have our cats to help ground us? You have a wonderful week, too!

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  6. Ellen Pilch
    April 19, 2015 at 12:19 pm (4 years ago)

    Some things are harder to accept than others. Cats are wise creatures that can teach us a lot . Please visit us for a giveaway.

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