New Family Member: Introducing Ruby

Ruby The Conscious Cat

The Conscious Cat has a new family member! Allegra and I are excited to welcome Ruby into our hearts and home. Well, right now, I might be a little more excited than Allegra, but considering that Ruby only came home yesterday morning, things have been going really well. Initially, Allegra was really mad at me for bringing this little intruder into her house, and she watched suspiciously as Ruby began to explore her new home. Whenever Ruby came too close for comfort, she made sure Ruby knew that Allegra was in charge!

By late afternoon, both cats were exhausted, and ready for a companionable nap in our sunny living room. I was amazed, and thrilled, that after less than six hours, they were that comfortable being in each others’ company. And yes, it’s almost uncanny how much alike they look. In the photo below, Ruby is on the floor, Allegra on the loveseat. On some of the photos I took yesterday, I actually had to look for identifying marks to tell them apart. Even though at eight pounds, Allegra is bigger than Ruby, depending on the camera angle, it was sometimes hard to tell!

Ruby and Allegra

I met Ruby on March 31 (coincidentally – or maybe no so coincidentally! – the same day I met Allegra a year ago). She was fostered through the SPCA of Northern Virginia, and lived with a lovely young couple and two big male cats. Her foster parents named her Cinnamon. The SPCA’s vet estimated her to be between six months and a year old – I’m leaning toward the lower end of that range, she’s tiny! She’s a total lovebug, in fact, her name in her initial vet record is Lovebug. She was found in someone’s backyard literally “asking” to be rescued. When the kind woman heard the little kitten crying, she opened the door and Ruby ran right up to her without any hesitation.

When I met her, her foster parents had just gotten home from work, so she was all wound up and eager to play. I spent about half an hour with her, and even though she was mostly focused on playing, she still occasionally jumped up on my lap. I just knew she was “the one.”

Everyone deals with loss at their own pace, and almost a year after losing Amber, I was finally ready to open my heart, and my home, to a new baby. I could have taken her home sooner, but wanted to wait until I had a few days in a row with few outside appointments so I could help Ruby settle into her new home and help her and Allegra adjust to each other.

Ruby is a very self-assured little kitten. She’s super affectionate – she likes to rub up against legs so affectionately that she tumbles over! I don’t think she knows how to play with other cats yet, the two big boys in her foster home were a little intimidating to her, but she’s able to endlessly entertain herself. Yesterday, she spent most of the day in my family room, which is really the kitty playroom. There’s no furniture, just cat trees, scratching posts, and toys everywhere. Allegra watched her every move, but didn’t participate in any play (although at times, it really seemed like she wanted to, but then she remembered that she was mad at me and the little intruder). After a while, they chased each other occasionally, and I’m hoping that as they get used to each other, they’ll learn to play with each other. In the meantime, I’m working on my hand-eye coordination so I can play with interactive toys with both of them at the same time!

She also had fun exploring stairs – her foster parents live in an apartment, so this was new territory for her. After the first few, somewhat klutzy, attempts, she now flies up and down both sets of stairs as if she had done it all her life.

Allegra is still withholding judgment as to whether all of this was really a good idea, but I’m sure you’ll hear from her in her own words in just a few days. And you never know, once Ruby settles in, you just might find her blogging here, too.

You can see wonderful “baby pictures” of Ruby (formerly Cinna), along with photos of her two foster “brothers,” on her foster parents’ photo blog.

75 Comments on New Family Member: Introducing Ruby

  1. Laura
    April 17, 2015 at 10:31 am (2 years ago)

    Happy anniversary, Ruby. You are a precious little lady!

    Reply
  2. Janelle Welch
    May 1, 2011 at 1:36 pm (6 years ago)

    Congratulations on your new addition! she looks very sweet!

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    • Ingrid
      May 1, 2011 at 2:03 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Janelle! She is a sweetheart.

      Reply
  3. JesseJames the outlaw (Karen)
    May 1, 2011 at 10:06 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations Ingrid and Allegra. I am so glad you have a new family member and of
    course she is a torti and a little girl. I must say you have the most beautiful torties! She
    is beautiful. And I bet in no time Allegra and Ruby will be very close. I myself have 12
    and my friend just adopted a little tortie and she has an older tortie who was not happy about
    it. But now they are close and play together. They are so amazing. I am so glad that you
    have added to your family.
    I hope someday you will come to SC to do a book reading, or signing. I would love to
    meet you.

    Karen

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    • Ingrid
      May 1, 2011 at 10:09 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Karen! By now, Allegra and Ruby are best buddies. They play together, chase each other through the house, and they both sleep in bed with me at night.

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      • JesseJames the outlaw (Karen)
        May 1, 2011 at 10:16 am (6 years ago)

        That is wonderful. I checked her baby photos out. What a beauty. I am
        so glad that you have her and that she has a wonderful home and a sister
        to share it with. I love it when they sleep with you as well. I share my
        bed with anywhere from 3 to 7 cat bodies at night!

        Reply
  4. Zee and Zoey
    May 1, 2011 at 9:52 am (6 years ago)

    Oh Ingrid! I am so happy to hear you have brought Ruby into your heart and home. May you have many years of joy together sharing what are sure to be wonderful adventures and delight, feline style! It is hard after you lose a pet to know when to bring another one in. But then, one day, you just know it “feels right.” I am very excited for Allegra too and am happy your acclimation process is going so smoothly!

    XO – All of us at the Chronicle Connection – Zee, Zoey, Mia, Peanut, Rolz, Harley, Jazz, and human Deb

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    • Ingrid
      May 1, 2011 at 10:07 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Deb and feline crew! They’ve become best friends very quickly.

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  5. Caren Gittleman
    May 1, 2011 at 9:23 am (6 years ago)

    YAY!!!!! What a complete and total pleasure it is to meet RUBY!!!!! I am so happy for you that I could burst!
    It was definitely meant to be. Meeting her the same day you met Allegra? The fact that they look nearly identical?
    Also….they are getting along in only approx 6 hrs?
    Totally meant to be!!!
    They say in life there are “no coincidences”
    I wish you many, many happy and wonderful years with your new baby girl!!!!
    xoxoxo

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    • Ingrid
      May 1, 2011 at 10:06 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Caren! They’re best friends by now!

      Reply
  6. Esme
    April 22, 2011 at 1:15 am (6 years ago)

    Ingrid and Allegra-oh my goodness who exciting and I just read the comment from Kay. I am so happy that Ruby has a wonderful home. She could not be in a better place.

    xoxoxo Penelope and Magellan

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    • Ingrid
      April 24, 2011 at 10:02 am (6 years ago)

      Thank you, Esme, Penelope and Magellan. Allegra and Ruby are already having fun together.

      Reply
  7. Kay
    April 20, 2011 at 10:09 am (6 years ago)

    Ingrid —

    I’m the one who found Ruby/Cinnamon/Lovebug in my backyard, and I am so, so glad she has found what sounds like the greatest of homes. She is so loving — I still miss her! Thanks so much to you and Kathleen and her foster parents.

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    • Ingrid
      April 20, 2011 at 10:16 am (6 years ago)

      Oh my goodness, Kay – thank you for rescuing Ruby! She’s absolutely adorable. She practically throws herself at me for some loving and petting! And she’s a little purr machine, too. She and Allegra are becoming fast friends. Last night, they started playing with each other and chasing each other all over the house.

      Reply
  8. Jeanne
    April 20, 2011 at 7:30 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations! She’s gorgeous! And I’m just thrilled that Allegra is adjusting so well.

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    • Ingrid
      April 20, 2011 at 10:14 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Jeanne! Noone could be more thrilled than I am that Allegra is adjusting so well.

      Reply
  9. ann dziemianowicz
    April 19, 2011 at 9:54 pm (6 years ago)

    Ingrid, So happy for you!

    Ruby is a cutie.

    Glad you made the leap in your own time when you were ready.

    I’ll bet the two will be best buds soon. And you’ll be happy Allegra has a friend to keep her company.

    Enjoy your new lil’ energetic fur bundle!

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    • Ingrid
      April 20, 2011 at 10:14 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Ann! They’re well on their way to becoming friends.

      Reply
  10. Anna
    April 19, 2011 at 3:37 pm (6 years ago)

    Welcome sweet little Ruby!!!!!!!! You have found such a loving home, and I’m so glad to hear that you are adjusting to your new life so quickly! You are a very smart girl, and I bet Allegra is going to love you a lot very soon! Wishing you, your big sister and your Mom lots of joy and happiness together!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 20, 2011 at 10:14 am (6 years ago)

      Anna, thank you! We’re having so much fun together already.

      Reply
  11. Deborah Julian
    April 19, 2011 at 8:05 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations Ingrid! Ruby is a very lucky cat. I look forward to hearing more about your two beautiful girls.

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    • Ingrid
      April 19, 2011 at 12:07 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Debbie! I think I’m the lucky one.

      Reply
  12. Debbie
    April 19, 2011 at 1:33 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations on adding a new member to your family! I knew you would eventually. I’m glad they are getting along so splendidly, so soon!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 19, 2011 at 6:40 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Debbie! It’s so wonderful to have Ruby here with us.

      Reply
  13. Debbi
    April 18, 2011 at 9:09 pm (6 years ago)

    OMGosh!! Ingrid how did I miss this!
    Congratulations, Ruby is beautiful!!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 19, 2011 at 6:39 am (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Debbi!

      Reply
  14. Mason Canyon
    April 18, 2011 at 8:41 pm (6 years ago)

    Oh, congratulations on the new family member. Ruby looks adorable and in time I’m sure she and Allegra will be the best of sisters.

    Mason
    Thoughts in Progress

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 8:46 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Mason! I don’t think it will be long before they’ll be best buds.

      Reply
  15. Sparkle
    April 18, 2011 at 8:25 pm (6 years ago)

    Concatulations on your new addition! Ruby looks very cute!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 8:45 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Sparkle!

      Reply
  16. Tammy
    April 18, 2011 at 7:01 pm (6 years ago)

    Congratulations Ingrid! Ruby is adorable! It sounds like Allegra is going to adjust well and enjoy her new sibling!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 8:45 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Tammy!

      Reply
  17. Bernadette
    April 18, 2011 at 6:20 pm (6 years ago)

    Has Allegra forgotten yet that she’s mad and mistakenly begun playing with Ruby? I think it’s only a matter of time, then human mom had better watch out!

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 6:28 pm (6 years ago)

      Not quite yet, Bernadette, but I think we’re going to get there. I have a feeling there won’t be many dull moments at my house with two young torties!

      Reply
  18. Marg
    April 18, 2011 at 6:05 pm (6 years ago)

    Wow, I just saw this. That is so exciting that you have a new member of your family. It sounds like Ruby and Allegra are going to get along really well. It is always to good to hear about kitties find such a wonderful forever home. Love the picture of the two of them kind of together. I am thrilled for you and so glad you did this.

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 6:27 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Marg! It’s so nice to have Ruby here, and I think once Allegra gets over being a little mad at me for rocking the boat, she’ll love having a little sister.

      Reply
  19. Anita Moncrief
    April 18, 2011 at 5:28 pm (6 years ago)

    Congrats on the new baby! I hope Allegra is more welcoming to her new sister than Tasha was to Chloe!! It’s been over a year now since I brought Chloe home (just before Christmas a year ago) & while they have yet to sleep together, they are now playing together & will both sleep on the bed with us at the same time, which is a huge step forward!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 6:27 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Anita! I’m hoping that eventually, Allegra and Ruby will play and sleep together.

      Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 6:26 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Roberta. She is a sweetheart.

      Reply
  20. Dawn
    April 18, 2011 at 4:48 pm (6 years ago)

    Congrats, Ingrid and Allegra! And of course Ruby, too. I’m glad you’re not having too much trouble introducing them and I’m glad to hear it’s going smoother than it went for Lola and Lexy. That was quite a chore. I’m looking forward to Allegra’s blog about her new sister.

    Reply
    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 6:26 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Dawn. I can’t believe how smoothly things are going.

      Reply
  21. MaxtheQuiltCat
    April 18, 2011 at 3:48 pm (6 years ago)

    How wonderful and how lucky for Ruby. I hope the transition continues to go smoothly. Congratulations to all of you.

    pawhugs, Max

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  22. Susan Stoltz
    April 18, 2011 at 2:26 pm (6 years ago)

    What a sweet and loving face Ruby has! I can tell just by looking at her that she’s a love bug! Congratulations on adopting another beautiful kitty, Ingrid. I can’t wait to see more pictures and hear about how Allegra is doing with her new Tortie pal.

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  23. Catsparella
    April 18, 2011 at 1:39 pm (6 years ago)

    Aw, what wonderful news!! Congrats Ingrid, and welcome Ruby!! I can’t wait to hear all about her new adventures, and I’m especially curious to read Allegra’s thoughts on the matter when she blogs about it! 🙂

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 2:11 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Stephanie! I may have to carefully edit Allegra’s upcoming blog post for potentially offensive language 😉

      Reply
  24. Bernie
    April 18, 2011 at 1:13 pm (6 years ago)

    A new Mommie and a big sister all at one time. What a lucky family. With your love and attention, I am sure Allegra will take her under her wing in no time and teach her all the do’s and mostly the don’t. Lots of love

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 2:11 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Bernie! It’s fun having a baby in the house again. Allegra is still debating the fun part. You will all hear from her soon.

      Reply
  25. Amy Shojai, CABC
    April 18, 2011 at 12:44 pm (6 years ago)

    Congratulations! And yes, it’s amazing that the intros have gone so well. Kittens tend not to be quite as much of a challenge as intro-ing adult cats. Glad for the caution about “recommended” intro-ing procedures *s* but you’re a very intuitive and savvy cat purrr-son. Some cats don’t read the rule books.

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:53 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Amy!

      Reply
  26. Nancy
    April 18, 2011 at 12:03 pm (6 years ago)

    She’s adorable! Congratulations (and now I know why we switched appointments!) to everyone, especially big sister Allegra!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:11 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Nancy!

      Reply
  27. Fancy Cats Rescue Team Volunteer
    April 18, 2011 at 11:41 am (6 years ago)

    How wonderful that a new kitty got such a wonderful new home a family. Congrats to you and Ruby. What a wonderful gift to give and get.

    On a side note: People should be reminded that quick introductions to new furry family members don’t always go so well. A lot of rescues highly recommend that the new family member be kept in a nice small quiet room for at least ten days. Even if they are up to date on their shots and the kitties show no signs of being sick it is just good to keep them separated should there be any hidden underlying illness. It also really helps a lot of kitties to adjust to the new home. Some get so very over whelmed by the new smells and sights and such that they will go into a small area and hide. A lot of adopters don’t take our advice and I cannot tell you how many kitties have been returned and lost out on a good potential forever home simply because the kitty was never given the proper time and environment to adjust.

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:10 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks (and I’m sure I probably know your name, but can’t figure it out from the e-mail address). You are, of course, absolutely right – quick introductions don’t always end well.

      I’m very much aware that I went against conventional wisdom by introducing Ruby and Allegra so quickly. It was a conscious decision, not a defiance of what every rescue group and every feline behaviorist recommends. I trusted my gut instinct, which told me that with these two individual cats and their respective personalities, it was going to work. Had I seen any signs along the way that it might not have worked out so well, I would have followed traditional protocol. It’s not something I recommend to others, but in this case, it simply felt right, and I’ve learned to trust my intuition over the years.

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      • Layla Morgan Wilde AKA Boomer Muse
        April 19, 2011 at 4:53 pm (6 years ago)

        Perhaps it’s time to address traditional protocol. Every cat and every situation is different. Conventional wisdom dictates caution but I agree with you about trusting one’s intuition and taking it day by day. When I introduced Odin and Gris Gris (who knew each other from same shelter) to their new home, I set up a separate kitty room with the intention of gradually introducing them to my old boy Merlin. Well, Gris Gris slipped out the first night and I found him snuggled with Merlin. The separate quarters situation lasted about three nights and after that everyone slept in our bed in one big happy family. I’m a professional intuitive but everyone is intuitive and can learn to trust their gut and not rules.

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        • Ingrid
          April 19, 2011 at 5:10 pm (6 years ago)

          Layla, I agree that every situation, and every cat, is different. The traditional protocol is in place for a very good reason. As the volunteer from Fancy Cats said, too many cats are surrendered to shelters for not getting along with the resident cat because the humans rushed the introduction. I think intuition plays a big part, as does someone’s comfort level with cats, and knowledge about cat behavior. I’ll be blogging about this in more detail in the next few days.

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          • Layla Morgan Wilde AKA Boomer Muse
            April 19, 2011 at 5:18 pm (6 years ago)

            I’m happy to hear that. With the amount of excellent resources on cat behavior (like this blog) available these days even a newbie pet parent can gain experience and confidence quickly.

  28. Layla Morgan Wilde
    April 18, 2011 at 11:39 am (6 years ago)

    You already know how thrilled I am and let’s hope Allegra takes Ruby under her wing (paw) soon. Ruby is soooo cute and wish you many years of joy with this furry lovebug!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:03 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Layla. I don’t think it’ll be long before Allegra relaxes.

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  29. Robin Olson
    April 18, 2011 at 11:27 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations and thank you for rescuing a shelter kitty. Way to go! I hope all three of you will be very happy and get along well together!

    XOXO.

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:03 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Robin!

      Reply
  30. Kathleen
    April 18, 2011 at 10:51 am (6 years ago)

    Amazing how smoothly things are going already! I can’t wait to her more over the next few days, weeks etc!! Thanks for mentioning you adopted her from SPCA NOVA. We have so many other kitties who need homes!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:02 pm (6 years ago)

      I can never thank you enough for suggesting that I meet Ruby, Kathleen! I, too, am amazed at how smoothly things are going already.

      Reply
  31. obsidiankitten
    April 18, 2011 at 10:20 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations to you and (a slightly reluctant) Allegra! She’s adorable. Can’t wait to hear more!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:01 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Shannah!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:01 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Dawn. I immediately thought of your Cinnamon when I first heard about Ruby.

      Reply
  32. Ellen
    April 18, 2011 at 9:54 am (6 years ago)

    Wishing you much joy with your new little cat and your old one, too. One of our beloved cats passed away last August, and eventually we were ready to bring another guy into our home, and it was the best decision we made. Great match and he’s helping to fill the hole in our hearts. Best of everything to you and your family.

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:01 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Ellen. I’m sorry about your loss, and I’m glad that you, too, found another one to fill the hole in your hearts.

      Reply
  33. Sandy
    April 18, 2011 at 9:50 am (6 years ago)

    Congratulations on your new little girl!

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    • Ingrid
      April 18, 2011 at 12:00 pm (6 years ago)

      Thanks, Sandy!

      Reply

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